Friday, August 12, 2016

Bored Little Kitty

So HotRod was away this week. And even though Miss Kitty is a free agent, I just haven't met anyone who interests me in a bit. I've been on a few dates, but nothing came of them. And while it's a nice distraction, it's not a substitute for real play time, which I miss.

Without going into too much detail, there are some limitations on sexy contact while he's away. But I discovered a nice workaround that might work for others in similar situations. If you have no restrictions on sexting or long-distance contact, then you're not necessarily the person who is going to benefit from this, but it worked for me, and will, I'm sure, for some others.

I decided to update the tumblr every other night for HotRod's benefit. Don't get me wrong. I still updated for myself--all the things I love, like corsets. But I'm also trying to think of what HotRod may like to see while he's all on his lonesome. He's certainly adult enough to Google his own porn. But there's an added intimacy, when I am picking out the sexy pics to share with him. It's my way of silently saying "You like this, don't you?" and hoping he enjoys it as much as I expect he will. Just a little something sexy shared between partners.

So during the week I tumbled the sexy shoes, which I added to the blog as well recently. And then just the other night I posted a series of other images, such as...


I don't pretend to be any good at photography--and honestly, these were just taken with the iPad mini, which has a super dark screen, which results in images that are washed-out looking because I spend a lot of energy lightening them. But they're simple, candid shots, on the fly. HotRod's the man who loves to take photos. I just did these for fun times with my partner, and shared them out for anyone who was interested or got a rise out of candid sexy selfies--even if they're not great photos.

But I guess that's part of the overall point. I don't have to have a body that won't quit in order to be sexy. Sexy isn't about how you look as much as how you feel. And sexy to your partner--well, that's unique to them as well. It doesn't matter to me that they're not centerfold quality, just that they're sufficient to share and have fun with. People need to lighten up about how they look and get their sexy on, and have a good time. If you enjoy it, do it. If someone doesn't like it, they can go look at something they like more. No harm, no foul.

Anyway, my two cents: You only live once, so live like you understand that.


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